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DR WILFRED MONTEIRO (www.synergymanager.net) is India’s nationally acclaimed stalwart in the HUMAN RESOURCE MANAGMENT FIELD He is the fournder of META+COACH - the definitive model for executive coaching and mentoring for business scions and young entrepreneurs &a wide range of business professional like lawyers, architects, chartered accountants.technocrats etc. His coaching sessions have help people to find their & DEFINING MOMENTS at life and work. He has fostered THOUGHT LEADERSHIP through over numerous public seminars and conferences organised by India's leading Chamber of Commerce D He is a advisor to board of directors and a keynote speaker for international seminars & conferences

Tuesday, January 27, 2015

There is no template for success- each life is a fairy tale written by the hand of God ...Yet some traits across the spectrum ( AND VERY SIMILAR) of what it takes to become a SUCCESS


WHAT'S THE DNA OF FUTURE CEO's


At a recent conference of young entrepreneurs and achievers one of the speakers backed out with the ubiquitous excuse "...caught in a traffic jam..."  It was a tight jam for the conference organizers as well and the chief coordinator asked me to "step-in" (at just a 5 minute notice) to fill the gap especially since I had worked in the area of Success Motivation for well over 30 years.

I took my pen and jotted down in a hurry  my random thoughts on a sheet of paper... and to say I had request if I could email and send them a summary here it is... What surprises me is that if I had thought all through a weekend I might have not been so precise and substance filled.



1They look for and find opportunities where others see nothing.
2They find lessons while others only see problems.
3. They are solution focused. They rarely complain.
4. . They ask the right questions -- the ones which put them in a positive mindset and emotional state.
5. They set high standards for themselves... people who compete with themselves rarely get beaten
6. They don’t blame others for problems in life and take complete responsibility for their actions and outcomes.
7. They always find a way to maximize their potential, and use what they have effectively.
8. They are busy, productive and proactive. They work through the tough stuff that most would avoid.
9. The select friends carefully...They align themselves with like-minded people. They don’t hang out with toxic people
10. They have clarity and certainty about what they want...focus and perseverance brings them success in the long term
11. They don’t invest time or emotional energy into uncontrollable things.
12. They don’t procrastinate. They deal with problems quickly and effectively. They finish what they start.
13. They are life-long learners....not a day passes without them jotting what they learnt from the book of life
14. They are tough minded optimists , while still being practical and down-to-earth.
15. They perform consistently ...by doing what they need to do, regardless of how they are feeling on a given day.
16.  They don’t believe in, or wait for, fate, destiny, chance or luck...the smarter they work their luck works harder for them.
17. They focus on what matters... not the trivial or the distractions which eats other peoples  time
18. . They have identified what is important to them and they do their best to live a life which is reflective of those values.
19. They have balance. They know that money is a tool and ultimately, it’s just another resource.
20. They understand the importance of discipline and self-control this is the core of their character.
21. They are secure in their sense of self-worth...their work give them worth but leisure gives them their colour
22They are adaptable and embrace change... both willing to give up and get started on something important yet daunting or unpleasant
23. They are resilient...they bounce back after a setback; they enthusiasm is  not zero in moments of crisis
24. They listen well and are open to, and more likely to act upon, feedback.
25. They know how to relax, enjoy what they have in their life and to have fun.

With best compliments

Dr Wilfred Monteiro

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