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DR WILFRED MONTEIRO (www.synergymanager.net) is India’s nationally acclaimed stalwart in the HUMAN RESOURCE MANAGMENT FIELD He is the fournder of META+COACH - the definitive model for executive coaching and mentoring for business scions and young entrepreneurs &a wide range of business professional like lawyers, architects, chartered accountants.technocrats etc. His coaching sessions have help people to find their & DEFINING MOMENTS at life and work. He has fostered THOUGHT LEADERSHIP through over numerous public seminars and conferences organised by India's leading Chamber of Commerce D He is a advisor to board of directors and a keynote speaker for international seminars & conferences

Saturday, June 27, 2015

Have you ever wondered if the big legends of success in sports or arts or business have some magic DNA which makes the appear as Superman??? read on their secret may be simpler than you think!!!

How to become excellent 
@ anything & everything



Whose life do you admire the most? Whose phenomenal success do you wish you could call your own? Have you ever wondered what it takes to be a peak performer in your area? Have you ever wondered what the big achievers know- that you don't about success & achievement? Have you ever wished you could have that proud moment on the podium with a Olympic gold medal round your neck? or a Bharat Ratna or a Nobel Prize in your hand??


WHAT TURNS ORDINARY PEOPLE INTO OVERACHIEVERS

Simply put, all of the above may  sound like Superman’s Wishlist, but they are not hallucinations or mirages; they represent what we all could be. Natural talent and intelligence can certainly make life a lot easier. Nor is luck. Whoever it is that you admire most is, in fact, a lot more like you than you might expect. Except for one thing: THEY THINK DIFFERENTLY. When the whistle blows, when the chips are down, when the deal is on the table, when they step into the limelight, they are in a special mindset.

What turns ordinary people into overachievers is the way they use their minds when they are called upon to perform. And in case you think that only athletes, musicians, actors, and other entertainers "perform," you should know that any time you engage in your work, you are performing; any time you are not alone or talking to yourself, regardless of your profession, you are performing in public. To be as successful as you can be as a performer, you will need a performer's mindset.

Peak performance mind training is essential for anyone wanting to be at their best. Over the years we have heard a  lot on getting fit and eating the right foods, but very little attention is given to train your mind. It's amazing really… because the MIND is like the source of the stream, and everything else flows downhill from there. You absolutely have to be performing mentally at your very best, if you want to surge ahead in life.

One of the most proven method of  sports coaching is the importance of "the mental game"; that players who are psychologically prepared will have an edge on competitors who might be more physically gifted. So, over the past  years, clinical psychologists have jumped into the sports arena, offering to help people work on their mental games by teaching techniques of "stress management," "goal setting," "visualization," and "self-talk."

Olympic and professional athletes who have actually experienced performing at their peak, or who realized they were stuck on the second string, were quick to consult with these clinicians about how they might enhance their games. Professional sports teams added psychologists to their payrolls. And since sports is such an irresistible metaphor among business executives, many of them former high school or college athletes, Fortune 500 companies began hiring psychologists to teach their top executives the mental fitness tricks of great athletes. Today thank God  everyone recognizes, the need to keep your mind tuned like a high-performance engine.

For most who, have accepted the incredibly durable myth that some people are born with special talents and gifts, and that the potential to truly excel in any given pursuit is largely determined by our genetic inheritance. I've found, in my work with executives at dozens of organizations, that it's possible to build any given skill or capacity in the same systematic way we do a muscle: PUSH PAST YOUR COMFORT ZONE, and then rest.That’s exactly the mega-achivers do when the perform in the critical competiton on the Olympic track or the concert stage. Aristotle had it exactly right 2000 years ago: "We are what we repeatedly do." By relying on highly specific practices, I've seen young executives, dramatically improve skills ranging from empathy, to focus, to creativity, to summoning positive emotions, to deeply relaxing.
Like everyone who studies performance, I have  been making the case that it's not inherited talent which determines how good we become at something, but rather how hard we're willing to work — something he calls "deliberate practice." Numerous researchers now agree that 10,000 hours of such practice as the minimum necessary to achieve expertise in any complex domain.
There is something wonderfully empowering about this. It suggests we have remarkable capacity to influence our own outcomes. But that's also daunting. One of the central findings of human behaviour & success experts is that practice is not only the most important ingredient in achieving excellence, but also the most difficult and the least intrinsically enjoyable.
If you want to be really good at something, it's going to involve relentlessly pushing past your comfort zone, along with frustration, struggle, setbacks and failures. That's true as long as you want to continue to improve, or even maintain a high level of excellence. The reward is that being really good at something you've earned through your own hard work can be immensely satisfying.


HOW DO YOU TRAIN YOUR MIND  TO PERFORM  AT THE PEAK OF ITS ABILITIES?

Practice, Practice, Practice. Work at getting better each and everyday. When you were learning to walk, you would take a couple steps and fall down. You may have gotten frustrated but you still got up and tried again. You do not fail when you make a mistake. You only fail when you fail to learn from your mistake. Practice intensely, without interruption for short periods of no longer than 90 minutes and then take a break. Ninety minutes appears to be the maximum amount of time that we can bring the highest level of focus to any given activity. 

The evidence is equally strong that great performers practice no more than 4 ½ hours a day. Do the hardest work first. Bite the bullet…We all move instinctively toward pleasure and away from pain. Most great performers,  delay gratificationand take on the difficult work of practice in the mornings, before they do anything else. That's when most of us have the most energy and the fewest distractions.

Next important point RITUALIZE PRACTICE. Will and discipline are wildly overrated...few of us have much of it. The best way to insure you'll take on difficult tasks is to ritualize them — build specific, inviolable times at which you do them, so that over time you do them without having to squander energy thinking about them.


NINE GUIDEPOSTS TO ACHIEVING EXCELLENCE

 Here, then, are GUIDEPOSTS to achieving excellence we've found are most effective for my personal growth seminar participants:

PURSUE WHAT YOU LOVE. Passion is an incredible motivator. It fuels focus, resilience, and perseverance.  Top performers are positive. The super-achievers take negative self-talk, situations, and circumstances, and reframe them into positive mood boosters. They look for the opportunities and lessons that come from all events in life. They learn from them and use the teachings to become more successful than they were yesterday.

COMMIT TO YOUR DREAM. Olympic athletes like all other super-achievers are committed to attaining their dreams and they have a “never quit” attitude. You can commit to your dream and make it happen as well. Have a clear picture of where it is you want to go and take steps each day in the direction of your dream. Make it a reality.

FOCUS & VISUALIZE YOUR END OBJECTIVES. Top achievers keep focussed on their end result. What is it that you want to achieve? Sometimes you will have to say "no" to pursuing an activity or  giving up a pet hobby that gobbles time but does not contribute to your end objective. At times, you may ask yourself, "Is it worth it?" What is it worth to you not to live your dreams? So super-achievers are also great time managers

CONVERT DREAMS TO SMART GOALS -Only 3% of people set goals and they are the super-achievers & peak performers. They set goals that are specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and have time frame set for achievement. With each goal, take time to set a plan of action. What are 5 things you can do today to take a step in the direction of your dream???

ALWAYS GIVE YOUR BEST. The difference between first place and second place is all the little things that add up to be big things on the BIG scoreboard. There is just a hair splitting difference between the winner and runner-up in the 100 meter Olympic dash.  So refine and nurture your talents and strengths. Giving your best on a bad day is better than giving nothing on a good day

WILLING TO TAKE RISKS. Super-achievers take calculated risks and step out of your comfort zone. Train your mind to make decisions quickly but with due diligence. Listen to your intuition. Super-achievers have a well defined “inner voice” what psychologists call the self-talk. It’s a hidden tape-recorder you have within you to motivate or de-motivate you in those critical moments

GET A COACH OR A MENTOR. Accelerate your achievement by hiring a coach or mentor that will help you develop a winning attitude and set breakthrough goals that will help you get the results you are hoping to achieve. The simpler and more precise the feedback, the more equipped you are to make adjustments. Too much feedback, too continuously, however, can create cognitive overload, increase anxiety, and interfere with learning.

TAKE REGULAR RENEWAL BREAKS. Relaxing after intense effort not only provides an opportunity to rejuvenate, but also to metabolize and embed learning. It's also during rest that the right hemisphere becomes more dominant, which can lead to creative breakthroughs. People who are in a big hurry to succeed reach the other end very fast (yes! literally the other end)

CONTINUOUS LEARNING. Super-achievers discover new ways of how you can improve yourself, increase your productivity, and train yourself to be better than the rest. To learn more about your profession, listen to audios or read books  that talk about the new breakthroughs &  techniques or tips that will make you more powerful in your field.

Peak performers are driven to be the best. They know what it takes to become successful. They possess the "will" to go after whatever they want in life and are willing to make sacrifices in order to achieve them. They continually focus on getting the results they want and take calculated risks to go after them. You can be a peak performer and achieve your own personal Olympic Gold medal! Give your best to everyone and keep an eye on your end result. 

Achieve what you believe!

    
With  best  compliments
Dr Wilfred  Monteiro




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